How to Delete a TenderMeets Account

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How to Delete a TenderMeets Account

TenderMeets touts itself as a leader in online dating with the ability for subscribers and users to find love in more than 32 countries worldwide. TenderMeets is available for anyone 18 or older, but targets singles ages 45 and over. However, they don't make it easy to .

Hundreds of online reviews indicate users signed up for a discounted one-month rate only to be billed a higher amount without being aware, among other unpleasant experiences. When these charges are deducted from your account unknowingly, it can cause financial hardship and frustration. When you're not easily able to figure out how to delete your account, it's challenging, if not impossible, to reach a human being who will help you do so.

But DoNotPay is here to help you delete your TenderMeets account, so you can rest easier, knowing your account won't be charged, and your information will be removed.

What Is TenderMeets?

TenderMeets is one of over 44 million online dating sites in the US, and online dating has the highest number of users in the world. TenderMeets is a product of, established in 1993. They offer free and paid memberships with extra charges for additional services such as e-letters, chats, and video chats.

When you sign up for TenderMeets, you agree to their Terms and Conditions to be billed at the regular rate, after the first-month billing cycle.

How to Sign Up for TenderMeets

Registering with the service is easy. They ask about your gender and the gender and age of your ideal partner. You're then prompted to sign up with Google or with your email and a password. You choose a nickname, reiterate your gender and that of your preferred partner, your date of birth, and where you're from. This is followed by a brief introduction of yourself, followed by an explanation of your "ideal partner."

After choosing from a list of interests, you add a profile photo and can browse through photos and profiles of other users whose profiles include the criteria you outlined.

Reasons to Delete Your TenderMeets Account


While online dating has become much more popular in recent years, there are still dangers associated with it. Some research found that women are particularly susceptible to negative experiences with online datings, such as contacts who reached out to them after they said they were not interested, and those who sent sexually explicit content.


Any service or website that holds your personal or private information, puts you at risk, but dating sites have particular security issues because they are collecting intimate details about you, on top of your personal information.

Unauthorized Charges

Unwanted charges are a common reason users wish to delete their accounts. And although the chargers may have been inadvertently agreed to upon signing up, frequently users won't be clear about what the chargers will be.


False profiles and fake users have left many reviewers alleging the site is a scam and many of the profiles are not real.

How to Delete Your TenderMeets Account Manually

The table below summarizes the different methods to delete accounts:

Can I Delete WithYes / No
Live ChatNo
  1. Go to Settings.

A popup window will show:

  • Sound (My contacts, Chat requests, Repeat until I read)
  • Your email address
  • Calls and Text messages
  • Email notifications (You can cancel notifications here)
  • Password (you can change your password here)
  • Manage the account (Need a break? Go here to hide or delete your account.)
  1. Choose Log out, Hide profile (Other members will no longer see you in the Search list). Turn off email notifications, or Delete your profile.

Important: A large orange button reads "Continue Using," which is deceiving. You must click the "Confirm" text underneath the large orange button.

  1. Enter your password to confirm, but beware. Again, the large orange button urges you to continue the service, so you have to click the small "Delete profile" text.
  1. Choose from the list of reasons:
  • It's expensive for me
  • Not enough free options
  • Received too many messages/letters from other members
  • Unpleasant experience with members
  • Members seem fake to me
  • Couldn't find someone local
  • The site is too slow and buggy
  • Experienced billing issues
  • Other
  1. Confirm

After you go through this process, you may get a verification popup at the top that says you're not authorized to do this action, but you should still be logged out and unable to log back in again.

If you don't want to delete the account, you can choose, instead, to hide it, so other members cannot view your profile.

After You Delete Your TenderMeets Account

Once your TenderMeets account is successfully deleted, it doesn't mean your information is gone. Tendermeet's Terms and Conditions clearly state that, by sharing information publicly, " automatically grant, represent and warrant that You have the right to grant to an irrevocable, perpetual, non-exclusive, fully paid, worldwide license to use, copy, perform, display, and distribute such information and Content and to prepare derivative works of, or incorporate into other works, such information, and content, and to grant and authorize sublicenses of the foregoing."

You can attempt to contact customer support through their email or phone at or +1 (800) 291-5025, however many users complain they are connected to the wrong sites and/or experience lengthy waits for customer support representatives and frequently experience no resolution.

If you're unable to delete your TenderMeets account in these ways, don't worry. There is an easy, hassle-free way to get it done quickly.

Delete Your TenderMeets Account in 7 Easy Steps

DoNotPay offers account deletion, so you don't have to go through the frustrating work of trying to figure out how to delete your TenderMeets account or whether or not it's done. There are just seven steps:

  1. Go to Delete Old Accounts product on DoNotPay.

  2. Select the type of account you are trying to delete, such as email, streaming service, social media, gaming, eCommerce, and more.

  3. Tell us more about your account, including usernames and associated emails / phone numbers.

  4. Help us verify your account ownership by entering the date you first created the account, when you last logged in, any payment methods saved under the account, etc.

  5. Upload photographic evidence if you have any that can help prove your account ownership.

  6. Enter any last known or previously used passwords.

  7. Enter your contact information and submit the task!

To learn more about DoNotPay's account deletion service, .

Note: If you cannot cancel your account due to not having access to your email or password, or if you were blocked from accessing the TenderMeets service, DoNotPay can help with that, too!

DoNotPay helps users delete more than just TenderMeets accounts. You can use DoNotPay to permanently delete:

Why Use DoNotPay for TenderMeets Cancellation?

Three simple reasons:


Within minutes, you can get the job done without the frustration of combing through emails or tons of searches.


No lengthy forms to fill out or phone tag with customer support.


DoNotPay has a proven track record of success, so you can rest easy knowing the job is getting done.

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