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How To Document Neighbor Harassment—A Complete Guide

Having noisy neighbors is so common that we often consider it a part of the whole living-in-a-building experience. What can you do when neighbors from hell become more than a video game? You should always try the amicable approach first, but if it doesn’t work, there are some legal ways to deal with bad neighbors.

In this article, you can learn what constitutes harassment by a neighbor, how to handle it nicely, and how to document neighbor harassment. to send your neighbors a demand letter when reasoning doesn’t work.

What Constitutes Harassment by a Neighbor?

Not every form of annoying neighbor behavior is considered harassment. To deal with neighbor harassment effectively, first, you have to understand what constitutes harassment by a neighbor in legal terms. Check out the following table for clarification:

Behavior That Counts as Harassment by a NeighborBehavior That Doesn’t Count as Harassment by a Neighbor
  • Physical assault
  • Threats of abuse and violence
  • Offensive comments regarding your race, nationality, sexual orientation, and other discriminatory factors
  • Aggressive behavior
  • Vandalism on your or shared property
  • Dealing drugs in the communal area
  • Stalking, watching, and invading your privacy
  • Playing loud music during “quiet hours” or after you’ve asked them not to
  • Pestering your pets after you’ve asked them to stop
  • Putting a fence on your property or building over the property line
  • Knocking over your trash bins by accident
  • Cooking strong-smelling food
  • Entering your yard to play with your pets
  • Playing loud music occasionally

How To Deal With Harassing Neighbors

After determining you’re a victim of neighbor harassment, you should learn what steps to take to stop that behavior. Dealing with harassing neighbors can be tricky, especially when they have a bad temper. That’s why you should approach the situation carefully. In the table below, you can find some tips on how to handle harassing neighbors:

Tips for Dealing With Harassing Neighbors


Talk to themCertain issues with neighbors can be resolved without much fuss. Your neighbors might not be aware that the music they’re playing is too loud or that they’re annoying your pets. In cases like these, talking to the neighbors can be a good idea, but it’s not recommended if they seem aggressive or were abusive towards you or your family
Unite with other neighborsIf the annoying and harassing behavior is persistent, chances are other neighbors want to stop it too. Talk to other neighbors and compose a group complaint—the more people sign it, the harder it will be to dismiss it
Ask the landlord for helpIf you are renting the place, you can ask the landlord to help you. They might be unable to influence the offender, but they can change your locks, buy a vandal-proof fence, or install a security alarm system
File a noise complaintWhether they’re playing loud music, moving furniture around, or talking too loud, you can file a complaint against your neighbors. You don’t even have to tolerate their dog that doesn’t stop barking! If you decide to file a noise complaint, keep in mind that you have to notify the police while it’s happening. Otherwise, you’ll need to document the behavior
File a police reportIf the situation escalates and turns into aggression, violence, or threats of violence, you should inform the police. Upon filing a report, a police officer will come to gather more details and take statements and photographs if necessary. They might even take immediate action if the situation is alarming enough

How To Prove Harassment by a Neighbor

The best way to prove harassment by a neighbor is to document the behavior while it’s happening. Here are the best ways to document neighbor harassment:

  1. Notes
  2. Photos, videos, and audio recordings
  3. Witnesses
  4. Police reports


The first time you experience unwanted behavior from a neighbor, you should start taking notes. Make sure to note the date and time of the incident, as well as the type of harassing behavior. It will also be helpful to write down what actions you took to deal with the problem.

Photos, Videos, and Audio Recordings

The most reliable way of proving neighbor harassment is with tangible evidence, such as photographs and audio or video recordings. If a neighbor damages your property, you should take as many photos as you can. When a neighbor is verbally offending or assaulting you, if the situation allows it, try to record the offense. This type of evidence can be helpful if you decide to call the police. It can also hold up in court if you choose to sue your neighbors.


An impartial third party can be a great method of proving harassment by a neighbor. Even if it’s a member of your family or another neighbor, when they make a statement confirming the ongoing problematic behavior, it will be more difficult to dismiss your complaint.

Police Reports

It goes without saying that you should keep police reports whether you intend to use them or not. Filing a lawsuit should be your last resort, but if it does come to that, having police reports as evidence proves extremely significant in court.

Use DoNotPay To File a Neighbor Harassment Complaint Letter

If you are reluctant to involve law enforcement and file lawsuits, there is another way to deal with your harassing neighbors. Filing a demand letter against noise, assault, vandalism, or aggressive pets serves as a warning to the perpetrators. It shows your neighbors what legal actions you’re willing to take if they ignore your demands.

Drafting such a letter can be demanding, but you don’t have to do it on your own—DoNotPay will do it for you! Here’s what you should do:

  1. Choose the Neighbor Complaints product
  2. Specify the problem you’re having with neighbors
  3. Provide more information about the issue

We will complete and mail your demand letter in a breeze, and your neighbors will think twice before raising their voice or destroying your property!

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