Everything You Need To Know About Divorcing in the Military
Being in the army or having a spouse who is a service member can affect your divorce, even if you’re ending your marriage on friendly terms.
If you’re wondering how divorcing in the military works, you are in the right place! DoNotPay will give you the deets on the governing laws, residency requirements, and other aspects of military marriage dissolutions. We’ll also provide instructions on how to file for divorce if one of you is serving in the army.
Even though every state has its residency requirements for filing for divorce, an active military status (yours or your spouse’s) gives you some extra options for jurisdiction. If one of you is in the army, you can petition for divorce in the U.S. state where:
- You pay taxes
- Your spouse resides
- You last lived as a married couple for at least six months
- You’re stationed, even if you’re not a resident of that state
Having more options allows you to choose the jurisdiction that’s best for your case.
The duration of a divorce depends mostly on the issues you have with your soon-to-be ex-spouse, but being an army member or army member’s spouse can only prolong the process. If on active duty or military deployment, a service member might take much longer to respond to a divorce petition or appear at court.
Depending on the state’s mandatory waiting period, an uncontested military divorce may be over in a matter of weeks. If you and your spouse cannot agree on important matters and reach an out-of-court settlement, ending a marriage could take several months or even years.
Military divorces are governed by both state and federal laws. State laws regulate general aspects, such as alimony and children-related issues, and federal laws govern military-related matters. Take a look at the table below to see the most important federal laws in military divorces:
|Federal Law||What Does It Regulate?|
|Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA)||The USFSPA affects the division of the service member’s assets. This act determines whether you (spouse of a military member) are eligible to obtain parts of the base privileges, such as:
|Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA)||The SCRA was established to help protect the legal rights of military members while they’re on active duty. It’s most useful in case the service member cannot respond to a petition for divorce—the SCRA enables them to:
Even though the state laws regulate spousal support and children-related issues, frequent relocations and long deployments influence these matters in military divorces—here’s how:
- Alimony—Non-military spouses are often unemployed or underemployed because of the constant moving. This is why the service members are usually required to pay alimony
- Child custody—Parents who are army members often lose custody due to frequent relocations
- Child support—While on active duty, a parent in the military might be unable to visit their children often and share parental responsibilities with their spouse. This is why spouses of the army members are often granted larger child support amounts in divorce
The division of military pension is regulated under the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA) and disbursed through the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS). You can receive parts of your former spouse’s military retirement pay if one of the following rules apply to your case:
- 10-year-rule—You can receive a share of your spouse’s military benefits if at least 10 years of marriage overlapped with 10 years of service
- 20/20/20—If both marriage and service in the army lasted for at least 20 years and they overlapped for 20 years (or more), you’re eligible to receive a lifetime of your spouse’s military benefits, including full health care, commissary and exchange, and other privileges
- 20/20/15—You can receive your spouse’s military health care benefits for one year, provided that the marriage and their service lasted for at least 20 years and overlapped for 15
Yes, you can file for an uncontested divorce, but not every couple qualifies for a quick, cheap, and simplified dissolution of the marriage. In most cases, you’re eligible for an uncontested divorce if:
- You and your spouse agree on the no-fault reasons for divorce
- At least one you meets the residency requirements of the state where you’re filing for divorce
- You agree on the following matters:
- You drafted a divorce settlement agreement
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- Preparing the paperwork—Check the official websites of the state and county where you’re filing for divorce. These government websites usually offer DIY/self-help packets of divorce forms that you can download and fill out
- Making copies of each document—Keep in mind that you need to file the original documents with the court. You should make at least two copies of each document—one for you and the other for your spouse
- Filing original uncontested divorce papers with the court—Go to your local county clerk’s office to submit the forms. Some states and counties allow online filing, but it’s better to check that beforehand
- Serving divorce papers to your spouse—Check your state’s requirements and instructions on how to serve your spouse. Keep in mind that it might take them longer to respond if they are on active duty
- Attending the hearing—After the mandatory waiting period passes, a clerk will schedule your hearing. You should attend the hearing and present all documents and your divorce settlement agreement to the judge. The judge will:
- Go over the case
- Review the agreement
- Make a decision
- Issue the final judgment
A divorce settlement agreement is one of the most important parts of an uncontested divorce, but drawing it up is not easy or cheap. To write this document yourself, you need to be familiar with the state laws, rules, and regulations, and you mustn’t make any mistakes. If you want to avoid the hassle and have a lawyer write it, be prepared for sky-high fees.
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Visit DoNotPay’s learning center and check out the following table for more information about divorces:
|General||Military Divorce in Different States|
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