I Want To Know—Can I File for Divorce if We Still Live Together?
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In most states, you can file for divorce if you and your spouse still live together. Depending on the state laws, you might need to prove that you have lived separately:
- During the divorce—You can remain in the same house, but:
- Sleep in different rooms
- Prepare meals apart
- Before filing for divorce—Some U.S. states require you and your spouse to live separately for a certain period before you can file for divorce
To protect yourself from issues and delays, you should make sure that you and your spouse can live in cohabitation before your divorce is final. You can do that by checking your state laws or consulting an attorney.
The following states don’t allow spouses to live together during the divorce:
|Alabama||Your divorce complaint needs to state when you stopped living together|
|Arkansas||To file for divorce, you and your spouse:
|Illinois||You have to live in separate households for six months before the divorce can be finalized|
|Maryland||You and your spouse must live at different addresses and have no sexual relations for one year if you cite the following grounds for a fault-based divorce:
There’s no minimum separation requirement when stating adultery and cruel treatment as grounds for divorce
|Ohio||It depends on the county, i.e., some Ohio counties:
|South Carolina||To file for divorce, you need to live at different addresses and not have sexual relations for a year|
|Virginia||Your divorce can be finalized only when you and your spouse have lived separate and apart for:
You may file for divorce before you’ve fulfilled this separation period requirement
Some U.S. states allow you to file for divorce while living together with your spouse under the same roof but have certain limitations:
- Delaware—You can live in the same household as long as you don’t:
- Sleep in the same bedroom
- Have sexual relations
- Georgia—You and your spouse can live at the same address but cannot:
- Be a couple
- Have sex
- Kentucky—Before your divorce can be finalized, you:
- Must sleep in different beds
- Cannot have sex for 60 days
- Vermont—To get divorced, you can live in the same household, but must:
- Sleep in separate beds
- Live as though the marriage has been over for a minimum of six months
You might decide to stay in the same house with your soon-to-be ex-spouse because of:
- Money, i.e., you cannot afford a place of your own
- Your children, i.e., you’d like them to remain in their home until they adjust to the idea of their parents getting divorced
To be able to keep living together, you need to file for a suitable type of divorce.
In most states, there are restrictions in case you’re filing for a fault-based divorce, especially if you state the following grounds:
|Reasons for Divorce||Details|
|Adultery||You need to prove you have lived separately from your spouse for a certain period:
This mandatory separation period may vary from state to state
|Unreasonable behavior||In most cases, you can file for divorce if you still live together. Keep in mind that the court will probably require you to justify why you’ve stayed under the same roof after the last incident reported in your petition|
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